With Jealousy Comes Rage
Soooo, I wasn't at work yesterday because I spent the day having my car towed to the garage by AAA, which lemme tell ya took forever. A monsoon decided to come our way so while I was dropping off my car at a shop that wasn't freaking open I got soaked and a bit of the sniffles. I am not going to complain about the rain since we haven't had any in so long and I know all you Northerners' are just plain sick of the rain already. Joe, I hope your brook is still a brook and not a ravine.
Saturday night I was out with a couple of my guy friends, and my crazy ex Andy went god damn psychotic. He came to the bar I was at and saw me with two guys, and lost his shit. He went outside and busted my headlights and taillights out of my freaking car. At this point I had ventured on to another bar with my friends so I had no idea what was going on. My friend Shannon (the bartender) called me and said "Andy went nuts on your car, and beat up some dude in the bar" WTF??? So I avoided him and left my car there because it was night and obviously I could not drive it. I went home to my friend Julies house and went in the morning to get my car. Well to my surprise I find out Andy came back at 5 in the morning and slashed 3 of my tires. Since this is a bar I hang out at alot the bouncer had been watching for him. JP (the bouncer) caught him slashing my tires and proceeded to beat the ever living shit out of him until the cops showed up, (yeah JP!!) Andy got arrested and since he had a warrant out for his arrest (failure to appear in court for a possession of cocaine charge) he went straight to jail.
I found out yesterday when I went to put a restraining order against him that he was in fact arrested for possession of cocaine again. He isn't getting out for awhile, I hope. They denied my restraining order saying he had to do physical harm to me, yes you read that right, I have to wait until he beats the shit out of me before I can get a restraining order against him, What??? Are you kidding me? Here are the pics of my car....
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I cant see the pics, but I guess there is no shortage of crazy coked-up lunatics in this world.  |
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You hit the nail on the head Joe, no shortage around here. I really didn't think he was capable of being this much of a...( pardon my language)...CUNT! We have been broken up since January, ugh! Maybe this will be the end of all bad things happening to me, I hope! |
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Holy sheite, woman, your poor car!!! I'm glad you're okay, and that he's locked up. He needs to stay that way. You need a bodyguard, or five! |
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wow, that's fucked up. and even more fucked up that he destroys your car and you can't get a restraining order....? glad to know he is in jail though. |
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Well Meg is going to get me a bubble, so no one can get to me anymore, I figure my damn luck is gotta change sometime, meanwhile you can find me in the bubble. |
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F.Y.I....coming from someone who knows. When you go to fill the restraining out. You MUST, I repeat MUST embellish! You are afraid for your life (and that of your children if it applies). You say he has threatened your life and that you have witnesses that will testify that he has been seen outside your house trying to break in. The most important aspect though is the "fear for your life" over and over. Tell them in bloody description the ways that he has physically assaulted you time and time again. Police records help alot too! Seriously, you need to make it seem as if your life depends on it. ***Not like he is just an annoying, trouble making ex! |
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I wasn't about to lie to the judge while under oath. He never hit me, he never abused me, he never broke into my house, he lived with me. The mere fact that he acted violently towards my possessions and threatened harm through voicemails wasn't enough. Oh well he is locked up for a while! |
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Dude, the shittyness of your luck NEVER ceases to amaze me. Seriously. God I hope it gets better for you! |
